The vantage point

Who James is — the lived authority and its limit

James Roberts
Walking in Tenerife.

Sober since June 2020. Six years of daily practice on water, electrolytes, sleep, food, movement, sun, breath and the slow soft-tissue work. Not a clinician, and the page says so where it matters.

James Roberts. Fifty. Sober since June 2020 after a four-week residential at a UK clinic. Tenerife — the chair I work from. Six years of daily practice on water, electrolytes, sleep, food, movement, sun, breath, and the slow soft-tissue work. Two doctor's appointments a year, with bloods at one of them, since discharge. Zero alcohol, daily, for six years as of writing.

The lived authority is one person's body, in one place, with one history. That is real, and it is also a limit:

  • I am a man, in my fifties, white, English-speaking, of broadly European ancestry. The body of a woman, of a person of colour, of a person from a different climate or a different diet, will not respond identically to the same practice.
  • I came out of detox without a co-occurring serious mental illness, without a complex polysubstance picture, without a pre-existing chronic disease that constrains exercise or diet. Any of those changes the picture materially. The page says so where it matters.
  • I live in a sub-tropical climate with year-round sun. The sun part of the page generalises with effort and qualifies for any reader north of about fifty degrees latitude. This page names the alternatives where it can.
  • I have the means, the time, and the schedule to do a daily session of body work. Not everyone does. The page names where the practice scales down honestly and where it does not.
  • I am not a clinician. The lived authority earns the page where it earns it, and stops where it stops. The clinician is the partner for the body. The desk is a companion for the practice.

The bias is named. The lived authority earns its space. The page steps back where the clinician steps in.

The rest of the history, because it is the reason for the caution

Born in Manchester in 1976. Twenty-seven years of daily drinking before residential treatment at Delamere in Cheshire in June 2020. Nearly twenty years headhunting travel and hospitality executives before that, and several years afterwards in Tenerife running Casa Salvia, a guest house where a good many of the guests were in recovery, from several countries and several treatment systems. I was not their clinician and not their sponsor; I was the man making the breakfast, and the range of bodies that passed through is where the caution on these pages comes from. Casa Salvia is sold and no longer operating, so nothing here is an offer of a room.

I am a declared past paying patient of a British clinic. I take no referral fee from anybody, and endorse no clinic, no fellowship, no physiotherapist, no dietitian and no supplement brand. I never have. The editorial standards page carries that in full.

Who you are talking to

I have been in a lot of rooms.

Most of them with other men. Some of them very ordinary, a few of them not ordinary at all. Every one of them taught me how to listen.

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    Thousands of men

    Nearly twenty years of recruiting, all over the world. Men at the top of their game, men on the way out, and every one in between.

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    Unusual housemates

    I have shared a home with a man who had done time, and with a journalist who wrote for the Daily Sport and the News of the World. Neither was dull.

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    Famous company

    I have spent time with a Premier League footballer and a pop star. Same questions, same worries, better shoes.

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    Half the planet

    I have navigated half the world and never once been punched. Polite and cheeky, in that order.

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    Any room, same man

    As happy in a trailer as on a stag do. I have seen in the New Year with a prince, and another with a sheikh.

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    Other men’s stories

    I take inspiration from other people and live a little through them, in a happy and healthy way. Then I make my own judgement.

I can sit with any man, in any room, and be myself. That is what I bring to the conversation.

James Roberts, Tenerife

Not medical advice

The post-alcohol body is a clinical body. Anything on this page that intersects with your medication, your diagnosis, or your particular history belongs with a clinician who knows you.

Lived authority, not protocol. This is one person's practice, named, dated, with the limits acknowledged. It is not a programme. The safety page says what to do when today is the wrong day for reading, and the limits page says what this site will not do.